Jill of All Trades....Mistress of None

So serene

2012-01-27T10:51:00.002-05:00

I'm not focusing on a specific house for this post, but rather the setting for all of these houses. A little town on Cape Cod? Right on the beach? Yes, please.

Fitness Report, Week Ending 22 Jan

2012-01-23T10:48:00.000-05:00

DIET
I did track my food this week, but I wasn't always within my goal. Baby steps.

EXERCISE
One day of walking with a friend. Bonus: fantastic conversation.

HEALTHY CHANGE
Time to start back on these. I'm working my way into this--if I do everything at one and it's overwhelming I won't continue.

GENERAL
I'm feeling pretty good about this week. I'm progressing toward my goal, even if it is in small amounts. Progress is good.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: -.6 lbs
Total Weight loss: 16.2 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: no change
Hip measurement: no change

The British are gone

2012-01-19T16:58:00.001-05:00

Cool windows, in my favorite Boston neighborhood....PAUL REVERE'S HOUSE!!!!

Do-over

2012-01-17T11:39:00.002-05:00

Can I get a do-over on my fitness plan? It's been two weeks and I admit I can't seem to get into it. I did awesome the first five days, then Colton's birthday hit....then his birthday party. Then my birthday, then Craig went out of town for a week....and that week included a no-school voting day, a vomiting child, snow/freezing rain, and school delays. Excuses? Yes. Felt very real to me? Also, yes. So there you have it. Life is like that.

So, if you're like me and have already wavered on your New Year's commitments, let's give it another go. Fitness 2012, take 2!

Sweet and cozy

2012-01-12T11:21:00.000-05:00

Dormers, brick chimney and a porch. Yep, I'd live there.

Cape Cod Cute

2012-01-05T20:08:00.001-05:00

It's a shingled house attached to a lighthouse! The cute is killing me.

A Christmas Wish Came True

2012-01-03T11:32:00.004-05:00

This morning I was in Crossley's first grade classroom, helping as I do each week. His teacher gave each child the chance to stand and share something they had done or a favorite gift they received over the holiday. There were lots of Apple products mentioned, a few American Girl dolls, a bicycle, and other favorite gifts (Crossley shared that his birthday was last Wednesday). Toward the end of the sharing time a wiggly, challenging, sincere little girl shared that she received her Christmas wish-- everyone had had a happy new year.

I love volunteering at the school.

Fitness Plan Re-boot

2012-01-02T13:14:00.000-05:00

It's a new year and time to get back into my fitness plan. I took the month of December off because I wanted to enjoy the season without feeling guilty or stressed. Did I gain a couple of pounds? Yes, I did. Does it bother me? No, it doesn't. It was a choice I made.

My plan is unchanged, but I'll re-post it any case any of you might like to join me. (Please do, and let me know that you will be. Then, let's keep track of each other).

DIET
I will track all food and beverages, aiming for a daily caloric intake that will allow me to lose 1 lb. per week.

EXERCISE
I will workout at least 4x week, for at least 30 minutes. I must sweat.

OTHER
I will adopt one of Skip Hellewell's Healthy Changes each week.

REPORTING
Each Monday I will write a post reporting changes in weight and measurements. I will also discuss my experience with the Healthy Change of the week and general observations.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: N/A
Total Weight loss: 15.6 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: no change
Hip measurement: no change

Who-Knows

2011-12-23T11:27:00.001-05:00

My Auntie Bev always made these yummy treats for Christmas. I just finished up my batch for this year. If you're looking for one more little something to fill up your goody plates give these a try. I promise you won't be sorry.

WHO-KNOWS
Mix together in (very) large bowl:
2 cups Peanut Butter Cap'n Crunch
2 cups Rice Krispies
2 cups shelled, salted peanuts
2 cups mini marshmallows

Melt 2 lbs. almond bark and pour over contents of bowl. Mix until coated. Drop spoonfuls onto wax paper and let harden. Enjoy!

Filled with Christmas Spirit

2011-12-22T16:57:00.003-05:00

We may not have any snow, but you can't dampen our Christmas spirit. That's what I love about my house this time of year.

Merry Christmas!

Seeing through the fog

2011-12-15T11:41:00.000-05:00

It was a foggy day, and I only had my cell phone camera, but oh this house! The porch, the woodwork, the turret, the dormers....and it's in an old, very wealthy, seaside town.

Fitness Report

2011-12-12T11:12:00.001-05:00

Last week I didn't check in with my fitness report. To be honest, Monday came and went and I completely spaced weighing in or writing my post. And now here it is, another Monday and I find myself remembering what I should do.....but I'm not going to.

I'm giving myself the gift of taking the month of December off. This does NOT mean I will be eating uncontrollably, but rather I will be enjoying the treats of the season (within reason) and starting anew in January. I'm also hoping this break will let my body get used to my current weight (I've lost just shy of 20 lbs in 5 months folks!), and then it will be ready to start losing again when I kick into gear.

So there it is. But, stay tuned in January--I always get a good start with a new year.

Colonial America

2011-12-08T22:38:00.001-05:00

A traditional red home with white trim. It's so very American.

Life can be so hard

2011-12-02T08:34:00.001-05:00

Do you ever have those weeks when you realize how incredibly easy your life is?

This week the father of Chloe's classmate passed away after a long battle with Parkinsons Disease. He had been in the hospital for a year. An eight year old losing his father. It makes me physically hurt to think about it.

One of Colton's classmates has been in the hospital all week. He should return to school today. The teachers haven't been given permission to tell us his diagnosis, so we're all anxious for today when he will return and the mom can update us. We're crossing our fingers and hoping it's something manageable, and not something terminal.

And then there's the little sister of one of Colton's classmates. Her mom told me yesterday that she's having brain surgery next Wednesday. Two years old, and having brain surgery. I could tell the mother is scared to death, but was trying not to break down as she told me about it.

Hug your families and count your blessings.

Christmas Cheer

2011-12-01T11:09:00.001-05:00

Perfectly decorated with New England holiday spirit.

NaBloPoMo

2011-11-30T08:19:00.001-05:00

It's the last day of November, and I have successfully participated in NaBloPoMo. As Halloween slipped away into November I had no intentions of posting on my blog every day. I have friends who have been doing NaBloPoMo in the past, and I always told myself, "There's no way you can do that. You don't have enough to say that anyone would want to hear." But this year, after the first week of November I realized that I had been posting every day and would give it a whirl.

There have been days when my mind had to stretch and reach for something to post. There have been times when I had posts lined up for the next several days. There were even a couple of posts that, in the past, I had not been gutsy enough to share with the world. It was a good month.

Swastika Sighting

2011-11-29T17:30:00.001-05:00

A couple of weeks ago Crossley taped a new decoration to his bedroom door. Craig and I were a little curious about the design, so we asked him where he came up with the shape. He told us he had seen it in a movie.

"Which movie?" I asked, interested to learn where my 6 year old had been introduced to a swastika.

"On all those submarines. In that movie, you know, T he Great Mr. Limpit. And, in The Sound of Music. It's on the new Austrian flag, the black spider."

Turns out I introduced my kids to a symbol, that today, is most often used to represent Nazism, Fascism and White Supremacy. Huh.

Fitness Report, Week 12

2011-11-28T11:07:00.001-05:00

DIET
Truth: I didn't even attempt to stick to my diet plan this week. Between Thanksgiving and an AWOL contractor who has left us with one bathroom I was otherwise occupied.

EXERCISE
Three days.

HEALTHY CHANGE
In addition to not sticking to my caloric intake I didn't make a snack plate. I'll be tackling that and Healthy Change #13 this week.

GENERAL
Let's talk motivation. In theory, the end result--feeling better, being in shape and weighing less-- should sufficiently motivate me to stick to my plan and keep going. But, that's not human nature. I need little incentives and celebrations along the way. Before I began my fitness challenge I made a list of rewards. Every five pounds I lose I get another reward. The rewards, for the most part, start off small and get bigger as I drop more weight. So far I've made an iTunes purchase (5lbs), bought a book on Amazon (10 lbs), and a bought a new shirt (15 lbs). Just a sampling of my future rewards: pedicure, new jeans, boots, massage, night out at the movies, and when I hit my goal weight, a weekend away with no kids.

Your rewards can be anything that motivates you. I purposely didn't choose anything food related. Most of my rewards are little pleasures and pamperings that I don't normally treat myself to.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: +.4
Total Weight loss: 10.6 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: no change
Hip measurement: no change

Weekend Highlights

2011-11-27T18:58:00.001-05:00

This time of year we get beautiful sunsets. Friday night was extra gorgeous. I only wish I had a wide angle lens at my disposal.

Toward the end of last school year, and again this fall, Chloe mentioned that she can't always see what's written on the board. I took her for an eye exam last week and her glasses came in on Saturday. When she put them on she expressed surprise at being able to see distant words clearly....and then spent the rest of the afternoon reading every sign we passed. Isn't she cute?

Leftover Turkey Pot Pie

2011-11-26T14:02:00.001-05:00

If you're starting to get a little tired of Thanksgiving leftovers, but don't want to be wasteful, I've got an idea for you. I'm not sure why turkey pot pie never occurred to me before last year....maybe because my mom never made it. It's easy, and really yummy.

Ingredients

1 cube butter

1 lb baby carrots, chopped

1 small onion, chopped

1/2 lb frozen peas
2 cans new potatoes or 2 baked (peeled) potatoes, cubed

1.5 cups leftover turkey, cubed (the pieces that are getting a little dry work wonderfully)

2 cups leftover gravy

1 egg white, slightly beaten

1 package phyllo dough or 4 pre-made pie crusts

Melt butter in a large frying pan. Add carrots and onions, sautė until tender. Meanwhile, warm gravy in a small sauce pan.

Add peas, potatoes and turkey to carrots and onions. Reduce heat to warm and stir together. Let sit while preparing crust.

Line the bottom of a 9x13 pan with half of the phyllo dough*. Brush egg white onto phyllo dough every 2nd or 3rd sheet. Cover the dough, filling the pan with the veggie/turkey mixture. Pour gravy over top. Layer remaining phyllo dough on top, brushing with egg white as you did on the bottom.

Bake at 350° until gravy bubbles up on the sides.

*If using pre-made pie crusts line two pie pans with crust, then top with remaining crusts. Finish edges and cut slits in top crust.

Black Friday, get thee behind me

2011-11-25T16:00:00.001-05:00

I didn't know what Black Friday was until I was in high school. No one I knew got up early to go shopping. I didn't even know that there were big sales the day after Thanksgiving. Combine that with the fact that I inherited my mother's aversion to malls and the result is my absolute refusal to participate in mob shopping.

To be truthful, I've shopped on black Friday three times. The first, I accompanied my high school best friend to Fred Meyer. Every year her grandmother bought socks and underwear for my friend and her seven siblings. As the oldest, my friend had the assignment to accompany her grandmother and to approve all purchases. It was my first Black Friday experience and I was a bit overwhelmed. I couldn't believe how many people were in the store (surely the majority of the 30,000 people who lived in town, and many from the surrounding rural communities). When we arrived the grandma already had a cart full of underclothing and socks, and we began sorting through it and deciding what to keep while waiting in the check out line. Rather than miss out on something good, she grabbed and piled, then waited for us to weed out the good ones.

The second time I was in my married, pre-children life. My friend Suzanne asked me to accompany her. We hit Walmart in Springville, UT just before it was due to open, only to find that it had started snowing, so they let the shoppers in early. They had been allowed to fill their carts, but not to check out. I stood in a check out line while Suzanne flitted around the store finding items from her list. She had some specific things she had hoped to get, but they were gone by the time we got to them. I think we hit one or two other stores, but the highlight of the morning was having breakfast with my friend.

The last time I went shopping on Black Friday was when I was pregnant with Colton. We had travelled to Spokane for Thanksgiving since Craig's brother had just returned from a LDS mission in Ecuador. I had a big list of baby items that I wanted to sew and was hoping to use my mother-in-law's serger. Rather than hit the first thing in the morning sales, we woke at our usual time, showered and left for the fabric store. There was plenty of flannel (which I was after) on the shelves and I loaded my arms...and my mother-in-law's. As we were chatting with the lady in front of us there was a commotion immediately behind us. We turned to find a young woman, unconscious on the floor. Her mother stood, staring at her, mouth open. Everyone else just stared. I realized that no one was going to do anything for this girl. I handed off my bolts of fabric and lowered my 8-month pregnant body to floor to check her vitals. Just then she awoke and informed us that she was lightheaded and dizzy. Turns out they had left home at 4am without eating breakfast and had been shopping for five hours straight without stopping.

That day I decided that I would never again venture out on Black Friday. I can do without the crazy hoarding, the disappointment, the bodily harm. There's nothing I want that badly. I'm happy to stay at home and decorate for Christmas (or if the weather is fine, like today, do a little yard work).

A Home for Thanksgiving

2011-11-24T10:45:00.000-05:00

Cute dormers and a red door with an autumn wreath. I'd eat Thanksgiving dinner here.

Praise God, From Whom All Blessing Flow

2011-11-23T13:33:00.001-05:00

I love that we have a holiday to focus on gratitude. As we discussed during our family night this week, it's important to feel grateful, but it's even more important to express thanks to someone, our Heavenly Father.

This year I am especially grateful for my darling babies, Craig's job, my children's school, a new nephew, and an amazing summer trip. As always, I give thanks for my savior, Jesus Christ and for the power of the atonement.

Truly, we are all blessed.

Stress free holiday?

2011-11-22T21:05:00.001-05:00

Today our contractor decided to come rip out our upstairs bathroom....the one we called him about mid-October. I'm really looking forward to the updates, but I'm not looking forward to tomorrow. My day of a first-thing-in-the morning errand at the school, then pie baking now needs to include purchasing a bathroom mirror, sealing a slate floor and painting the walls where the toilet and vanity used to stand. Before 11am.

I just want to make pies.

Fitness Report, Week 11

2011-11-21T11:24:00.001-05:00

DIET
I logged and stuck to my diet goals really well the first half of this week. Then, Craig came home from NYC and it was a little harder to stick to.

EXERCISE
Three days.

HEALTHY CHANGE
When Skip first posted his challenge relating to fats last March I was so excited. I really love butter and was happy to have a reason to switch my family from the yogurt spread we've used the last few years to butter. Butter is holidays at Grandma's house--who wouldn't love butter when the taste accompanies fond memories. Several years ago we also began using olive oil more. This was an easy (and enjoyable) challenge for me.

GENERAL
Last Friday I finally went to the doctor to address the cough I've had since August. Turns out I've got bronchitis and an ear infection. I'm on an antibiotic and am hoping I'll finally be feeling back to myself by Thanksgiving.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: -2.2 lbs
Total Weight loss: 11 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: no change
Hip measurement: no change

Wants and Shoulds

2011-11-20T15:47:00.001-05:00

I always feel conflicted when I come away from stake conference. If you know me, you know that my fondest dream, hope and desire is to move back to the Pacific Northwest. It's where my heart is, and where half of our family resides. I want to be there.

When I attend stake conference I am reminded of how needed we are in this part of the world. We listen to speakers who remind us of our daily circumstances. The northeast has the lowest percentage of Latter-day Saints in the country. We are few and far between. Many of our members are new converts, still adjusting to a new way of life. Our church attendance is low in numbers and the burden of keeping our ward and stake functioning generally falls on the shoulders of a (young) few. And it's hard work.

There are many, many times when I wish we could move back west, not only to be near family and surroundings that are comfortably home, but to rest. Yet, at the same time, I feel like we are doing good here. Our service is meaningful and needed and I wonder if we should just make a go of it and plan on staying here. And then I'm reminded of our friend, Brother Lam.

When we were first married Brother Lam once told us, "Someday you will live in a place where you're the best the Church has." Sometimes I think Brother Lam must have the gift of prophecy.

Just a little homesick

2011-11-19T15:22:00.001-05:00

Today I was reminded how just how different my place of residence is from where I grew up. Occasionally, I'm still surprised that I deal in things like leaf bags, winter wardrobes, oil heat, snow pants, snow plows, toll roads and February vacations.

I miss my mild weathered, laid back, low maintenance Oregon.

If I were in charge

2011-11-18T15:41:00.001-05:00

I have an idea that will make someone a fortune: refinance responsible homeowners who are underwater and whose mortgages are not Fannie/Freddie backed.

I'd love to refinance, but because we are not F/F backed we don't qualify--we're underwater. There is a program for homeowners like us, but the lender has to voluntarily participate. I think we all know that mortgage lenders don't voluntarily do anything.

What I'm proposing is that someone with lots of capital (Warren Buffet, do you read my blog?) start refinancing homeowners who have never missed or been late on payments, and whose homes can't appraise high enough to refinance.

Why would this work? First, you know these people are reliable. They're making their payments, on time, despite higher interest rates and even bouts of unemployment. These homeowners like their homes and their neighborhoods and want to stay put. Second, in refinancing only the amount remaning on the the loan, the homeowners can even more easily make their payments and have a little extra to spread throughout the economy (win/win). Finally, the new mortgage company would MAKE MONEY. It would be collecting interest that is currently going to another mortgage company.

Overly simplified, maybe. But logical, no?

Relaxing of an evening

2011-11-17T08:41:00.001-05:00

It's all about the porch, my friends. A place to sit in a rocker and drink lemonade on hot summer days.

Allowing others to serve

2011-11-16T11:18:00.001-05:00

My visiting teachers came to visit this morning. When I make time for them to visit me I usually feel that I'm allowing others to do service; being gracious enough to let them fulfill their assignment. I don't really need visiting teachers-- I'm capable and confident and have things under control. Rather smug of me, no?

This morning, as I was doing last minute clean-up before they arrived, I pondered the ladies who visit me. One has children my age, and the other grandchildren my age. I like that. I think too often we surround ourselves with women who are much like us, and by doing so we miss out on opportunities and perspective. I value these women and the experiences they share with me.

I also thought about past visits and how I felt when they were in my home. As I remembered I realized that these two women are always building me, never tearing down. There is no judgement, no preaching. They praise me and my efforts, my children, my talents and abilities. They are kind and sweet and always leave me with a kiss on the cheek.

Today was no different. They shared and discussed and lifted me a little higher. They praised and encouraged and loved. They visit taught.

They might be a couple of quirky "old ladies", but I love those old ladies and I love how they serve me.

But Mortimer, Niagara Falls!

2011-11-15T15:55:00.001-05:00

The fam taking the obligatory "we've been there" pic.

We spent the long weekend taking a road trip. Downtown Niagara Falls still had some gorgeous autumn colors. They lined the median that ran the length of the main street. So pretty!

American side view of the falls.

The American side isn't quite as scenic, but it's a better view of the majesty and intensity of the falls. There's lots to do on the American side, lots of it at no cost. And, of course, it doesn't require a passport.

The falls from the Canadian side.

The Canadian side gives a better view from a distance. The road along the river is called the Niagara Parkway. It's a nice drive, or stroll, but there isn't much in the way of museums or information.

Niagara Falls! It does? Well, let it.

Fitness Report, Week 10

2011-11-14T10:48:00.001-05:00

DIET
I was on the road several days this week, so I didn't faithfully log. However, I did try to keep a running estimate in my head.

EXERCISE
One day, but it was a big day.

HEALTHY CHANGE
I love the idea of eating foods, especially antioxidant rich ones, in their season. And, eating berries--yum! In the past I didn't buy a lot of berries. I grew up in an agricultural area where it was affordable to "you-pick" most fruits. In addition, blackberries, plums and apples grew, unattended, on our ranch. When I see the berry prices I get lightheaded. Last year I finally accepted the mantra "buy what you like to eat because it's cheaper than eating out." Since then I have been buying lots of berries. Yum! Love them. I am obsessed with raspberries right now.

GENERAL
My mom was in town last week and we were constantly running around, sightseeing. I've been tired and out of my normal routine. I'm hoping to settle back into things this week.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: -.6 lbs
Total Weight loss: 8.8 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: no change
Hip measurement: no change

5 Things

2011-11-13T10:31:00.001-05:00

When road tripping, Craig usually needs a little help staying awake and focused. This weekend he came up with the "5 Things" game. He and I would take turns asking each other to name five things. It was successful enough to keep us entertained for four hours. Occasionally the categories were weak, but often they made us think and discuss further. Here are a few from yesterday:

Name 5

subatomic particles
wives of Henry VIII
rivers in Europe
scientific principles
U.S. presidents who were assassinated or survived assassination attempts
ways of saying "Hello" in different languages
songs whose lyrics include numbers
signers of the Declaration of Independence

There were, obviously, many more to fill up four hours of driving. What "5 Things" question would you have asked?

A letter to my sister-in-law

2011-11-12T19:08:00.001-05:00

Dear Lindsey,
I hope you won't be too sad when my alma mater destroys your alma mater tonight. It's all in good sport.
Hugs,
Cabesh

New England Quilt Museum

2011-11-11T07:57:00.000-05:00

On Wednesday Grammie, Colton and I ventured to the New England Quilt Museum. I had only heard negative things about the city of Lowell, so I was pleasantly surprised when I drove around the downtown area. It was beautifully clean and updated while maintaining its 19th century charm.

This is the darling innercity park we were near. Love it!

The museum is small, but had a beautiful exhibit; Patience to Raise the Sun. The exhibit showcases quilts made by Hatian women who are trying to support their families. The amazing thing? Quilting is new to Haiti, since the earthquake. It is being taught to women so that they can export their quilts to the United States to be sold. Photography was not allowed, but the quilts are vibrant works of art.

The museum changes its main exhibit every 6-8 weeks, and I'm looking forward to going again when the next one opens.

Red Barn

2011-11-10T08:54:00.000-05:00

Need I say more?

New Hampshire Children's Museum

2011-11-09T09:44:00.000-05:00

The kids had yesterday off school for voting (don't get me started). We wanted to do something fun with Grammie, so we went to The Children's Museum of New Hampshire. The drive took about an hour, but it looked like this...

...so no complaints.

We've been to the Boston Children's Museum, and I assumed this one wouldn't compare. I was wrong. It was smaller, but all the exhibits were hands on and it wasn't crowded at all. There were so many things to do!

Colton putting paint on an apple to do some stamping.

Chloe playing postwoman in the old timey post office. This was definitely her favorite,

and she wished we could've gone back and done it again at the end of the day.

Crossley racing a car he built.

There was so much more--digging for dinosaur bones, learning how to weave, hoisting the sail on a boat, exploring a yellow submarine.... It was fantastic.

My civic duty

2011-11-08T15:55:00.002-05:00

It's voting day. I believe so strongly that we need a new mayor that I took the early morning shift, 6-8am, holding a sign at my polling place. I stood in my warmest, comfy shoes for two hours and greeted voters. Crossing my fingers things will go our way.

Also, we have a winner for the Paper Culture giveaway: #1-- Queen Scarlett!

Fitness Report, Week9

2011-11-07T11:41:00.001-05:00

DIET
I didn't even attempt. I obviously need to get back on this. This week--I'm doing it.

EXERCISE
On day. Blah.

HEALTHY CHANGE
Eat bread with more fiber than sugar. That's not as easy as you might think. Take a look at Skip's posts on the topic. And, we don't have the all same brands in the East that he talks about. But, I did okay because I didn't eat bread-- I used Lavash Bread this week. It did reinforce to me that I need to get back to baking my own bread. I haven't done it for a while, but I like being able to control what goes into it.

GENERAL
I haven't been motivated the last few weeks. I'm too easily swayed by challenges-- "Oh, it's our third snow day in a row? I guess I won't exercise again." Bah! I can do better than that.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: +.2 lbs
Total Weight loss: 8.2 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: no change
Hip measurement: no change

Plimoth Plantation

2011-11-06T09:53:00.000-05:00

Last month we attended Family Archeology Day at the Boston Museum of Science. While there I entered a drawing for passes to Plimoth Plantation. I was thrilled when I learned I had won the drawing. They sent us five passes, and since Colton is young enough to be free we decided to use them when Grammie came to visit.

The Plantation has two main features: a 17th Century English Village and a Wampanoag homesite. In addition, the Mayflower II, a ship modelled after the original Mayflower, is associated with the Plantation.

The pilgrim village is meant to be very authentic. It's only 1/3 the size of the actual village, but they have taken great pains to use tools and materials that the pilgrims would have used.

The setting is quite lovely, overlooking Plymouth Bay. It was very blustery and cool, but worth braving the weather.

The kids had a chance to beat some bedding. I'm pretty sure they're appreciating their mattresses tonight.

Colton loved the chickens and roosters that wandered freely in the village. He would've loved to have taken one home (me too), but our town doesn't allow us to keep chickens.

The absolute best part of the village is interacting with the staff. Each staff member is a particular person who lived in Plimoth during 1627. They are completely in character, and can only answer questions as they would answer them in 1627. We learned about sewing, cooking, farming, political views and frustrations of the time.

After the pilgrim village we walked to the nearby Wampanoag Homesite. In 1627 the Wampanoag chief asked a trusted man to move his family near the English settlement so they could keep an eye on what was going on. We visited a recreation of his homesite.

While everything was very interesting we were disappointed that there weren't many native americans for us to speak to, especially compared to the English Village we had just come from. It's possible that some of the staff were at lunch since it was that time of day. But, we felt like we didn't learn as much as would have liked to at the Homesite.

We did get to watch and learn as a Wampanoag artisan was making a mishoon, or boat, by burning out a tree.

One of the few staff available to speak with was this woman who was weaving beautiful things. In contrast to the English villagers, the Wampanoag staff are Native American who are free to talk about their history and culture from today's perspective. I especially loved hearing this woman tell a couple that the Wamponoag belief in the afterlife is that you go to the sky to be with your family who has gone before you.

After leaving Plimoth Plantation we had some lunch then drove the 3 miles to the Mayflower II.

The ship was beautiful, and again there were a few "Englishmen" on board who could answer questions about the voyage and their lives before they came to New England. The dock alongside the ship has many displays and placards explaining the building of the ship and aspects of the voyage. However, I really would've have loved a tour guide to show us around. Again, I felt like we didn't get as much out of it as we could have-- especially with 4 & 6 year old boys who don't want to stand around reading displays.

About a block from the Mayflower II is "the" Plymouth Rock, engraved with the year the pilgrims landed.

And, of course, we had to document the fact that we had really and truly been to Plymouth Rock.

A quilt for Fritz

2011-11-05T10:49:00.000-04:00

My sister-in-law is quite the seamstress, so I'm sure she didn't need a quilt. But, I like to send a little love to my nieces and nephews. I'm hoping this will serve well as a floor quilt for little Fritz to roll around and play on. Now, if he'd just make an appearance!

Paper Culture Giveaway

2011-11-04T09:53:00.000-04:00

Thanksgiving is less than three weeks away, which means Christmas is just around the corner! I'm already thinking about my holiday cards, and I'm sure you are too. It's your lucky day because one of you is going to win a $50 voucher to Paper Culture. Here are a few of my favorite designs available from Paper Culture:

This little girl is so darling. Imagine how cute your little one would be on this card.

This card is customizable--you can decide which circles to fill in. Super cute.

I love the classic design of this one.

There are many more designs to choose from. You don't even have to purchase holiday cards--there are invitations, announcements, stationery. You choose, it's your $50.

In addition to being beautiful, Paper Culture strives to be eco friendly. Their high quality paper is 100% recycled and they plant a tree for every order. Seriously, they're a class act.

HOW TO ENTER

1. Visit Paper Culture and browse the products.

2. Leave me a comment telling me which one you love the most.

Entries will be accepted until midnight on Monday, November 7th. The winner will be drawn at random. Best of luck (because I know you really want it).

* I was provided the $50 voucher for the giveaway. I was not compensated in any other way.

All the Shingle, Ladies

2011-11-03T11:46:00.000-04:00

Such a sweet little entry on this home. I love the grid on the window and the flower box. So welcoming.

I'm also a fan of shingled homes. I love the way they age. I'm also liking the trellis on the side of the home.....I think I need one of those.

Let's talk politics

2011-11-02T13:05:00.000-04:00

I'd like to share some wisdom that a former co-worker shared with me: vote liberally at the local level and get more conservative as the elected official moves farther from you. Over the years I've come to recognize the logic in this wisdom.

Our locally elected officials will be deciding matters that affect our day to day lives-- school policy, city development, property taxes....the list goes on. Our national leaders attempt to make sweeping decisions they feel are in the best interest for the entire country. When national leaders try to get involved at the local level things tend to get messy (case in point: No Child Left Behind). Local matters are best left to local leaders, with few exceptions.

Next Tuesday our city will be electing a mayor, aldermen, and school board members. The nature of our local government makes the mayor a huge player in education, he even sits on the school board. Not only that, but our school budget is a part of the city budget, making the mayor even more influential.

Did you know that our current mayor has no children? He has never been a parent within the school system nor has he worked in education. For a city whose mayor is so heavily involved in the educational system, I find this ridiculous. If you ever listen to him talk about education he frequently references his time in the public school system. He graduated high school in the late 60's. They didn't even have computers in classrooms at that time. He has no personal frame of reference for IEPs, No Child Left Behind, overcrowded classrooms or cyber-bullying. And, as we know, he is fond of making mountains out of mole hills.

How, you might be asking yourself, did he get elected? Unfortunately, there are many people who vote solely on party affiliation. Our current mayor is a Republican, and I strongly feel that is the only way he was elected and the only thing he is relying on to be elected again. Please understand this: I am a registered Republican, but will not be voting for Ted Gatsas, nor did I last time. I prefer to align my vote with my hopes and convictions rather than the bubble next to the word "Republican".

I'm asking you to do the same. Take a minute to examine your ideas for the needs in our city. Do we need a new city plaza, or do we need smaller classroom sizes? Do we need to shut down fire stations in the name of the budget or do we need someone who is willing to work on the budget in order to maintain city services? Do you think that kids today are disrespectful? Do you really think continually shrinking educational resources is going to help the situation?

Please, I beg of you, be an informed voter instead of a box checker.

Where did you go, Halloween?

2011-11-01T14:36:00.000-04:00

Halloween 2011

Halloween was stolen from us this year. To be truthful, I feel like it is stolen every year, but this year feels like a complete loss.

We live in an area where the local government decides the day and time trick-or-treating will take place. For nearly twenty years our town has trick-or-treated on the Sunday before Halloween, no exceptions. If Halloween falls on a Saturday, trick-or-treating is still the Sunday prior. Due to our religious beliefs we do not participate in recreational activities on Sundays, which we hold sacred as the Sabbath. For the last few years we have trick-or-treated with some friends whose town observes Halloween on the 31st of October.

This year our mayor and police chief spiced things up by moving trick-or-treating to Halloween. The actual day, the 31st! My kids have been so excited to go house to house in their own neighborhood and to interact with their friends. And then it snowed.

It didn't just snow. It snowed A LOT! In one storm we got seven times the amount of snow that had been the October snowfall record. We lost power for a little while and many of our friends are still waiting for power to be restored. Despite the fact that the storm was 48 hours before Halloween night, we are still dealing with the consequences. One of those consequences was trick-or-treating being postponed.....until next Sunday. Not only that, but our friends' town also postponed until next Sunday.

So there will be no trick-or-treating this year. There were no school parties since school was cancelled. The kids did get dressed up, but it was in snow clothes instead of costumes. It just doesn't feel like November without having had Halloween.

Fitness Report, Week 8

2011-10-31T10:47:00.002-04:00

DIET
Huge fail this week. I not only didn't track, but I didn't stay on track very well.

EXERCISE
Six days, thanks to the snow shoveling I did on Sunday morning. I've also changed up my workouts a bit. Since I've been at the same weight for almost a month, I thought that perhaps I've cardio-ed away all the unstubborn fat I can. I decided to add more strength training. I'm now doing 15-20 minutes of cardio and then the remaining 10-15 minutes are used for strength training. I'm trying to build some muscle in hopes that I'll burn more calories on a daily basis.

HEALTHY CHANGE
I failed here too. It's Halloween--was I really not supposed to bring any bags of candy into the house? There are exceptions to rules, and this was one of them. Yes, I brought bags of candy home. Will I do it again? No.

GENERAL
I'm not trying to use it as an excuse, but I do think that if I could get all of us healthy it would make a big difference. Craig's coughing had been keeping both of us up most of the night. We've been tired and sluggish. On Thursday he went to the doctor and was diagnosed with a respiratory infection and pneumonia. He's on meds now and is slowly improving. As a result, I've been sleeping better. So, I'm hoping things will look up this week.

Occasionally I have to remind myself that my goal isn't merely to lose weight, it's to feel better. When I remember this I can find accomplishments to celebrate that don't involve the scale. Take a look at the waist and hip measurements-- they're moving in the right direction. Toning my muscles and feeling good are definitely important, so I'm going to consider this week a success.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: +.2 lbs
Total Weight loss: 8.4 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: -2 inches
Hip measurement: -2 inches

Asian Flair

2011-10-27T18:22:00.001-04:00

I was driving around a neighborhood full of Colonial and Victorian homes when I suddenly came upon this beauty. A craftsman with Asian details. I love the multileveled roofline, the woodwork around the front door, the decorative roof braces. Please also notice the bust and decoration on the ridgepoles. I am seriously in love with this house.

Autumn in My backyard

2011-10-25T15:24:00.002-04:00

Four years ago I planted these two trees in our backyard in hopes of future shade. I purposely chose maples that would provide brillant Fall colors. This year the trees grew like crazy and gave lots of shade.

The colors are brillant, covering the range from green, to yellow, orange and red.

Some of them have fallen and made pretty pictures on my lawn.

I don't even mind when they turn crisp and brown....

because these guys love to rake them into piles and have fun.

Autumn is the best!

Fitness Report, Week 7

2011-10-24T10:02:00.000-04:00

DIET
I tracked really well this week until Friday. Both Craig and I are battling the flu. Craig has it pretty bad, and I'm working hard to keep it at a minimum.

EXERCISE
Four days.

HEALTHY CHANGE
Healthy Change #7 had me calculate the pounds of fresh vegetables required to feed my family for a week. I did that, then added up how much I actually bought. I only had 41% of the recommended amount. We do supplement with frozen veggies, but not enough to make up the other 59%. This is definitely and area for me to continue working on.

GENERAL
Despite the flu, I'm still feeling pretty good overall. This week I noticed that I completed task, which had previously made my back ache, without any pain. That's an improvement.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: -.6 lbs
Total Weight loss: 8.6 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: no change
Hip measurement: no change

Vine covered brick

2011-10-20T09:01:00.000-04:00

This adorable home has Tudor leanings and a darling, vine covered portico.

And the vines continue on to the side of the home. Vine covered, red brick? Swoon.

The photos don't do it justice

2011-10-18T08:21:00.000-04:00

I don't have much to brag about, but I thought I'd let you all be jealous of my surroundings. I took these while running my errands last week. They're just shots around town.

Fitness Report, Week 6

2011-10-17T09:47:00.002-04:00

DIET
I failed to track my food a few days this week and it showed on the scale. This week I'm recommitting myself to faithful tracking.

EXERCISE
Four days. Hurray! But, I've noticed that the same exercise that used to work up a good sweat isn't really doing that any more. I need to up my intensity level to get the same work out.

HEALTHY CHANGE
Healthy Change #6 was another easy one. As I've mentioned before, I don't have any trouble staying away from soda. I've never drunk coffee or tea. Juice is also a special treat around here, so that leaves milk and water. I used to drink lots of milk with everything, but in the last couple years I've cut my serving size in half at meal times. Now I'm drinking water with meals too, and only occasionally having a glass of milk.

GENERAL
Yesterday I put on a skirt that fit better than when I bought it. Now that it's cooler here and I'm starting to wear more warm clothing I'm discovering that my shape is changing. The change seems slow to me since I'm in my body every day, but when I put on the clothing that I wore last winter I can definitely see and feel a difference.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: -.4 lbs
Total Weight loss: 8 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: no change
Hip measurement: no change

Two story sun porch

2011-10-13T10:30:00.000-04:00

I love the two story, screened in sun porch on this house. The widow's walk on the top is the perfect finishing touch. This is an addition success.

School district serving cereal for lunch when food runs out

2011-10-12T13:34:00.000-04:00

Yesterday Chloe came home and told me that the school ran out of lunch and the rest of the kids (about two classes worth) were given cereal for lunch. Umm....WHAT? This is the first I've heard about this, probably because this year Chloe is during the last lunch group of the day.

After asking around and calling the district Food Services Office I found out that not only are they given cereal, the options were Cocoa Puffs or Cinnamon Toast Crunch. Those aren't even healthy options.

One mom told me that her daughter was starving by the time she got home yesterday because she had been one of the unfortunate ones that got cereal. Cocoa Puffs, to be exact, which she does not buy for her children.

Another mom commented on my Facebook posting about it that the same kids always seem to be getting cereal. That makes sense, since it's first come, first serve. Those poor kids! Some of them go to the after school YMCA program or the Boys and Girls Club. Six hours is a long time to last on a bowl of cereal.

I understand that there are challenges in trying to estimate the number of lunches you need on a given day. However, I don't understand why sugar laden cereals are the alternative. Loaves of (frozen) bread and peanut butter and jelly or cans of tuna could be kept in the kitchen. Or, a phone call could be made to the middle school that is literally next door to see if they have extra of their lunch that day (or of anything).

I think we can do better. I expect the district to do better. This is an unacceptable arrangement that needs to be fixed. And, it seems to me that possible solutions are neither difficult nor costly. If you live in my town contact your principal and the district Food Services Office. Let them know how you feel.

Fitness Report, Week 5

2011-10-10T11:22:00.001-04:00

DIET
This weekend was a little rough for the diet. I didn't go completely overboard, but I had a couple of days when I went a little over my target.

EXERCISE
Only three days. My fourth day was hijacked by taking a sick child to the doctor. Turns out she had pneumonia, so it was a worthwhile trip.

HEALTHY CHANGE
Healthy Change #5 is one I've been working on since the beginning--exercise most days of the week and sweat. For me, this is the hardest aspect of my fitness plan to achieve. Because I exercise first thing in the morning I so often have other demands that seem to take precedence-- sick kids, doctors appointments, volunteering at the school. When those things happen I fully intend to exercise in the evening instead, but to be completely honest, I'm usually exhausted (physically, mentally and emotionally) by that time and just want to relax.

GENERAL
I didn't have the most stellar week for my plan, but I think my body is understanding what I'm trying to do here because I still came out alright in the end. Also, from my high weight point last June, I've lost more than 15 pounds and more than 5% of my body weight. That feels good.

Oh, this week I also had someone ask me if I'd been losing weight. That's a first.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: -2.8 lbs
Total Weight loss: 7.6 lbs
Neck measurement: -.5 inches
Waist measurement: -1.0 inches
Hip measurement: no change

Creative Trim

2011-10-06T19:41:00.003-04:00

While I wouldn't choose the same colors, I love how the homeowners have decided to highlight the woodwork on this house with paint. I definitely smile when I see this house.

Fitness Report, Week 4

2011-10-03T08:54:00.002-04:00

DIET
This week I was very successful in sticking to my caloric intake. I feel like it's not a big challenge, but rather something that's becoming a habit. I stuck to my daily caloric goal and usually came in a little under.

EXERCISE
Only two days of formal exercise, but I felt like I was running around all week. Does that count?

HEALTHY CHANGE
Healthy Change #4 was a pleasure to work on. Getting midday sunshine most days? Awesome. The challenge is especially important to me because at my last physical my blood work revealed that my Vitamin D levels were low. Not a surprise, really, knowing that I live in the region of the US that has the highest levels of Vitamin D deficiency.

I did have some challenges since we've had lots of rain here this week, but I felt like I did a good job. The challenge will be the winter. I'm going to have to try to overcome my aversion to sub-freezing temperatures and get out for walks any way.

GENERAL
I am so pleased with my results this week, and that motivates me to keep going for another week. I also love that my clothing is starting to feel a little looser and I'm feeling better overall. And, I'm just above my goal of losing 1 lb. per week.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: -3.2 lbs
Total Weight loss: 4.8 lbs
Neck measurement: -.5 inches
Waist measurement: -1.0 inches
Hip measurement: no change

Nine years ago I became a mother

2011-09-30T11:31:00.000-04:00

Chloe came to us after much anticipation and longing. Nine years later she continues to be a blessing.

Happy birthday to my sweet angel baby.

Two front doors

2011-09-29T17:08:00.001-04:00

I'm a sucker for a historic home, and this one has not only two chimneys, but also two front doors. In the first half of the 19th century homeowners were moving from the basic necessities of a farm house to larger, more comfortable homes that included parlors. One didn't want to introduce visitors into the keeping room, but rather directly into the parlor. Therefore, homes had two identical front doors-- one for visitors that led into the parlor and one for the family that led into the keeping room. This home is an excellent example of that feature.

Fitness Report, Week3

2011-09-26T11:18:00.000-04:00

DIET
I felt like this week went better than last week, but the scale definitely didn't reflect that. I've got to up my game on the fruits and veggies....probably didn't help that I didn't have a lot of time for grocery shopping last week. I usually spend one afternoon each week doing the shopping. This week I was at the school helping out four days and my kids were out of school on the fifth day.

EXERCISE
Four days! I did it!

HEALTHY CHANGEI enjoyed working on Healthy Change #3. I don't like sugary breakfast cereals....with one exception (Peanut Butter Cap'n Crunch. My weakness). When I eat cereal I usually opt for plain Cheerios or Chex. This week I made sure I paid attention to the fiber and sugar content. Although it's not on Skip's list, I picked up a double box of Fiber One Honey Clusters at my local warehouse club. For a one cup serving it comes in at 13g of fiber and 6g sugar. Not bad.

GENERAL
I am feeling good about my efforts and I'm crossing my fingers that my body will kick into gear. Since I've been up the last two weeks I'm behind on my goal (would've hoped to be at a loss of 3 lbs at this point). But, I'm going to keep going.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: +0.8 lbs
Total Weight loss:1.6 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: no change
Hip measurement: no change

Maple tree love

2011-09-22T09:03:00.001-04:00

Our fall colors are just starting to appear, but this picture I took a few years ago shows just how lovely they can be. The thing I love most about this house is the tree. I covet it. Four years ago I planted two small maple trees in our backyard and I'm just waiting for the day when they're as large and brilliant as the one in this photo.

No lunch for you!

2011-09-21T14:06:00.001-04:00

If you live in my community it may be news to you that our public school teachers are no longer allowed to leave their campuses during lunch time. Did you just lean your head forward and say, "What?" Because that's what I did when I first heard the news. District wide, this policy is in effect.

Originally, I heard that the policy was retribution for the teacher union's refusal to re-open their contracts this year (despite the fact that they opened them last year and were told they wouldn't be asked to do so for three more years). I was appalled at the pettiness of the policy, until I heard there may have been another catalyst for it (although I still wonder if it was a combination of the refusal to re-open and the following incident).

Word on the street is that a high school teacher abused her prep period. Rather than actually using the time for its intended purpose, she took it, and her lunch (which was either right before or after her prep) to get her hair done at a salon.....where she happened to run into the mayor's wife.

From there, I assume, the mayor decided to get involved. Instead of letting the principal manage the situation, the edict was issued that no off campus lunches were to happen. I don't know if the command came directly from the mayor or if he pressured the schoolboard or superintendent to do it. I'll tell you what I do know.

I know that our teachers are under an incredible amount of stress. Classroom sizes have increased in the last three years and so have the demands put on our teachers. They have been told, for the most part, exactly how and what to teach with very little room for deviation. Supplies are diminishing and so is morale. And, to top it off, the 25 minutes our elementary school teachers have completely to themselves during the day have now been restricted. Someone has dictated where they must be spent.

I find the entire situation ridiculous. First of all, the high school principal should have been allowed to do his job instead of the entire teaching staff being micromanaged. Secondly, we are talking about professional adults. We should give them the respect they deserve and allow them the freedom to choose where they eat. Third, because one teacher made a poor judgement call does not mean that the rest must suffer the consequences, especially in something as easily remedied as this situation was.

Are you bothered too? Let the mayor, the school board and the superintendent know. That's what I'm doing.

Fitness Report, Week 2

2011-09-19T15:06:00.001-04:00

DIET
Nutritionally, it was not a good week. I only tracked my food half the days last week. I still tried to be aware of what I was eating, but I know there were days I went over on my caloric intake. I'm back on track today.

EXERCISE
Again, only three days of exercise....I've got to hit that 4th day. Every member of my family has been battling this awful cough/congestion thing for three weeks. The burning lungs, and along with Craig being in NYC for a business trip didn't bode well for my motivation. Today I'm feeling a little better and Craig is home, so I'm going to get back on it.

HEALTHY CHANGE
When I read Healthy Change #2 I thought it wouldn't be a problem. I rarely eat deep fat fried foods. In fact, it mostly happens at the same time I drink soda (see Healthy Change #1), or about once a month. But, the change does say NEVER buy them. Saturday night we suffering through the disaster that was the BYU football game and decided to order dinner. It was until we were eating that I realized I was eating chicken tenders and onion rings (a guilty pleasure--I love good onion rings). It'll be the last time I have those in a long while.

GENERAL
I am encouraged by all the support I'm receiving on my fitness plan. From PTA moms to ladies at church to my husband's aunt and uncle, everyone has been so positive and encouraging. Like I wrote in my initial plan, I'm putting myself out there a bit, which makes me nervous, but so far you all have been great. Last week wasn't stellar, but I'm ready to buckle down and work hard this week.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: +0.2 lbs
Total Weight loss: 2.4 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: no change
Hip measurement: no change

Seaside in New England

2011-09-15T09:46:00.000-04:00

Oh, this house. I just love it. The roofline, the windows, the porch. Who doesn't love a wraparound porch? Even better? It overlooks the ocean. Heaven, I tell you, heaven.

A word of advice, okay?

2011-09-13T18:31:00.000-04:00

Tonight at the soccer field I listened to a mother interacting with her child and it reminded me of one of the best pieces of advice I've ever received.

When I was in my Water Safety Instructor course (the American Red Cross certification that allows you to teach swimming lessons) the trainer told us," Don't end your sentences with 'okay'?". For example, I should say "swim to the other side" NOT "swim to the other side, okay?"

When we add "okay" to the end of a sentence we are asking the listener's permission. As parents, teachers or leaders we need to give clear instructions. When we add "okay" to the end of our sentences we magically transform them into questions instead of statements, thus allowing the listener to the possibility of denying our request.

If you want to confirm that the listener heard and understood what you were saying try something else. I say to my kids : "You need to clean up the basement please. Got it?" They will usually respond with "yes" or "what" or "wahhhhhh, I don't want to." The responses tell me a) if they were listening to me (or ignoring me) and b) that they understand the task. For an older crowd you might try something like, "We need to pick up all of these boxes move them to the next room. Any questions?"

That advice was invaluable not only in teaching years of swimming lessons and lifeguarding courses, but also in student teaching in a Jr. High, serving as a young women leader, leading groups of adults at church and school and with my own kids. So, the next time you're wondering why your child says no to your request, think for a minute: Did I just ask them IF they wanted to do that. Maybe a simple change in wording will help your sanity.

Fitness Report, Week 1

2011-09-12T10:45:00.000-04:00

DIET
I tracked my food and drink each day this week. I had two days where I went just a little over my target caloric intake, a couple where I was a little under. So, overall I came in right on target. I only had one big surprise: I had no idea how many calories were in pasta! Wow. That was unexpected.

EXERCISE
I only worked out three times this week. Each time was 30-45 minutes. I've had a horrible cough, so I've been going a little easy because I can't breathe otherwise. Colton hasn't started preschool yet, so I've also needed to exercise at home. I've been doing Just Dance 2 on the Wii.

HEALTHY CHANGE
This week I tackled Healthy Change #1. I was relieved when I read that this week's challenge was to drink only 12 oz. of soda (or other sugary drinks) each week. This was an easy one for me to start off with. I rarely drink soda. In fact, the only time I do is when we're on the run and grab fast food to eat. This only happens about once a month. From now on I'll be more aware of the drink size and probably even opt for water instead.

THE DETAILS
Weight change from last week: -2.6 lbs
Total Weight loss: 2.6 lbs
Neck measurement: no change
Waist measurement: no change
Hip measurement: no change

Detour House

2011-09-08T10:23:00.000-04:00

The one advantage to our horrendous detour through upstate New York was the scenery. As we drove by this house I became intrigued. Yes, it needs some TLC, but it's still an interesting home. I love the half windows in the attic story. I also think the blue screen door is a wonderful bright little spot of color.

The setting was gorgeous. Did these cows line up just for me? Probably not, but I love cows and barns.

Corn fields set against a beautiful countryside? I definitely wouldn't mind looking out my front windows at this scenery.

But, the thing that really intrigued me was the inhabitants of the home: Amish. I would love to peek inside an Amish home.

The neighbors seemed pleasant too.

And the idea of picking berries along the side of the road for a dessert is just perfect.

Making our way home

2011-09-07T10:51:00.001-04:00

Our drive home from Spokane went well. Chloe fell in love with southeastern Montana. She kept gushing about the wide open spaces, the mountains in the distance and all the room for horses to run. She's in a horse phase right now. Is it just the age? Because I was 8 when I was in my horse phase (complete with an actual horse, 4-H, and lots of horse books). Maybe I should see if I can dig up some of those books. Hmmm...

Five days is a looooong time in the car, so we decided to plan a couple of surprises along the way. The first one can be seen in the picture below.

Did you miss it? Okay, here it is from a more obvious angle.

We had planned on stopping at the Mt. Rushmore National Park, but when we got there was a HUGE line of cars. In the interest of time, we drove around to the back and saw the profile angle (the first picture), read the historical information and took some pictures. The kids were happy with the experience, though they really wanted to see the lake from National Treasure 2.

The second surprise involved grandparents!

The kids were so surprised to knock on a hotel door in Iowa and have Grammie open it up.

My parents drove 10 hours (each way) just to see us on our way home. Aren't they amazing? They stayed at the same hotel as us, took us out to dinner, accompanied us to park, joined us for Cold Stone, then took us to breakfast the next morning. Grandparents are the best.

All was going well until the last day of our trip when we entered the path Irene left behind her. We were detoured off a road in Upstate New York and moved ~15 miles in 9 hours. They wouldn't even let us off the detour route. The biggest challenge was convincing Colton to go potty in the ditch.

It looked like this most of the time.

Once we finally got to a town, at 10pm, we were able to slip off the detour route and find a round-about way home. We spent 18 hours in the car that day, but I'm pretty sure it would've been 24+ hrs if not for an atlas and a GPS to help us slip away. We finally arrived home at 3am. The summer adventure was complete.

My fitness plan

2011-09-05T11:36:00.000-04:00

It's been about a year since I've known, absolutely, that I need to get back into shape. My desire doesn't stem from vanity. I gave that up long ago. Rather, it stems from the need to feel better. It's not about weight. I want to feel good, to say goodbye to aches and pains, to be more able for my kids.

I've spent a lot of time researching different fitness and diet plans. I've come to the conclusion that I'm going to do this the old fashioned way (as suggested by my doctor): increase activity, decrease caloric intake and make healthy choices.

Over the summer I tried to make smart choices and dropped 9 lbs. without too much effort. Now that we're home from our summer journey, I'm ready go full force. Each Monday I'll be posting about my experience the previous week. Here's my plan:

DIET
I will track all food and beverages, aiming for a daily caloric intake that will allow me to lose 1 lb. per week.

EXERCISE
I will workout at least 4x week, for at least 30 minutes. I must sweat.

OTHER
I will adopt one of Skip Hellewell's Healthy Changes each week.

REPORTING
Each Monday I will write a post reporting changes in weight and measurements. I will also discuss my experience with the Healthy Change of the week and general observations.

RE-EVALUATION
I will re-evaluate my plan at the end of the year. This gives me 4 months to try it out. My doctor mentioned that most people go at a fitness/weight loss plan for 3 months, then give up, but after three months is when you really start to see results.

I'm a little nervous about doing this so publicly, but I'm hoping that will help me stick to it. Cross your fingers for me.

Back-to-School

2011-09-02T12:09:00.004-04:00

Evidently 3rd graders are far too cool to smile. Chloe is excited to move to the "senior" playground this year.

First grade at our school means riding the bus, eating lunch at school and Specials (art, library, gym, health and music). Crossley is super excited for all things 1st grade will bring.

The bus stop crowd this year. It's double the size of last Fall.

Ready for a new year. Look at all those books! Yikes. I've heard 3rd grade is when things really pick up.

He's so excited to be sitting across from a friend.

The first day of school deserves a celebration, which means it's time to pick our Hallmark Back-to-School Confidence Pack winner. #5--Meri. Congratulations!

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Victorian Details

2011-09-01T10:05:00.000-04:00

I was taken completely by surprise when I drove by this home. It's in a neighborhood that's less than a decade old, full of contemporary style houses. The owners of this home opted for more traditional features. The home is a basic two story dormered Cape Cod with an attached garage (see below). But the details are Victorian. I love the fish scale shingles, the woodwork in the eaves on at the top of the porch posts. The porch itself is also very Victorian, Capes usually don't have them

But, I think my favorite surprise was the color of the fish scale shingles--GREEN! There's no pale or forest about it, it's bright, kelly green. I admire these homeowners for taking a leap and I love the result.

Giveaway: Hallmark Back-to-School Confidence Pack

2011-08-26T11:03:00.004-04:00

Update: The winner was #5, Meri of The Streiffs. Congrats!

After Blogher 11 a representative from Hallmark contacted me and asked me to review some items from their new Back to School Checklist. I got a kit a few days later.

First off were three greeting cards from the Hallmark Kids Collection. The ones I got were age appropriate for middle, high school, and even college aged kids. They're sweet and funny all at once. I'll hold onto them for a while, until my kids are old enough to appreciate them.

The second item was a pack of Lunchbox Notes. I love sending little notes in my kids' lunches. I have used pre-printed messages before, but the Hallmark ones have a feature that I especially like-- some of them are customizable. They allow you to check a box on a list, write a note or draw a picture. I am super excited for these.

The third item was a Recordable Storybook. I had fully intended to give this book to my mother-in-law so that she could record it for my kids (after two months of daily grandparent contact I knew they'd be having withdrawals). But, when I opened the box and saw that it was a copy of Guess How Much I Love You by Sam McBratney I knew I was keeping it. I gave the same book to Craig as a Christmas gift, the day before we were married, so it has a special place in my heart. I plan on having Craig record himself reading it and then using it when he goes on business trips.

The book has very clear, easy to follow instructions for recording and the ability to re-record if you aren't happy with your first (or second, or third) attempt.

And, because Hallmark is super awesome and generous, they've given me a Back-to-School Confidence Pack to giveaway to you! To enter please do the following:

1. Follow my blog and leave a comment telling me that you did so (or that you already do).

2. For a second entry share my giveaway on Facebook or Twitter and leave a comment telling me that you did so.

The winner chosen at random and will be announced on September 2, 2011. Best of luck.

*The only "compensation" I received for this review was the products themselves.

Darling craftsmen

2011-08-25T11:16:00.001-04:00

This sweet little home is on the same block as the "possibly perfect" home I posted two weeks ago. I love the dramatic roofline that creates a perfect porch. The shed dormer is darling. I especially love the side of the home--the brick fireplace, the triangular roof braces, multiple windows. Of course I'm also fond of the landscaping--I love the look of a mature, "unattended" flower bed. Love it.

A breath of fresh air

2011-08-22T06:56:00.001-04:00

Before we headed west my home, church, and community responsibilities had become stifling. I was stuck, unmoving, in a never-ending sea of monotonous responsibility and expectations. I was tired of playing catch-up from our weeks of unemployment, of putting others before my family and myself, and even of everyday chores like driving to and from kindergarten.

I wanted to escape.

I knew that a weekend away wasn't going to suffice. I needed to be completely removed for a significant period of time. Thankfully, Craig's job is very flexible and all the starts aligned, allowing us to flee our "normal" life for two months.

This time away has been rejuvenating. In fact, I'm trying trying not to think about our leaving in three days. This has been too good. We have been surrounded by extended family whom I love and am happy to call my dearest friends. Our children have had cousins, aunts and uncles, and grandparents doting upon them all summer. The weather has been amazing-- dry, cool at night and not too hot during the day. The lack of responsibility has allowed me a period of relaxation.

I'm crossing my fingers that it will be enough. I'm hoping that when I get back I can throw myself full-force into all that reamins for me to do, and any new responsibilities that might come my way. But, I have to say, summering away from one's life is true living.

The Corps

2011-08-19T07:29:00.002-04:00

For the last year my brother-in-law, Shawn, has been working for the Conservation Corps. One evening he took us to a site he where did some work.

At this particular site the Corps, along with community volunteers, reclaimed a stream that had been buried underground, cleared out invasive plant species and planted native ones.

The landscaping is still young, but with a little vision you can tell that it will be gorgeous when it matures.

Shawn showed the kids around, telling them about native vs. invasive plants. He showed them the work he had done and explained its benefits.

He's such a fun uncle!

Craig and I loved seeing his work and are so proud of his efforts to make our world a better place.

Surprise Baby Shower

2011-08-18T07:04:00.000-04:00

My sister-in-law Jamie is the kind of person who doesn't like anyone to go to any trouble on her account. Because of this there was no baby shower planned for her. But, since it's her first baby and this family LOVES babies and all things baby, we had a surprise shower for her, in conjunction with our family picnic.

Jamie and her partner, Ian, were so cute opening the gifts. They had a good giggle over the Pee Pee Teepees (courtesy of another SIL, Stephanie).

Tiny shoes are always fun, and I love this picture of Ian. He looks so delighted.

Ian was also very good about modeling the clothing and this towel. Jamie would open a gift, look at it, then drape it over Ian's chest for us to admire. Too cute.

Chloe made this blanket (with a little help from Grandmommy) for baby Fritz.

Jamie and Ian are studying the diagram on how to swaddle. They are going to be the most adorable parents and we are super excited for little Fritz to come this Fall.

Cliffside

2011-08-17T08:47:00.000-04:00

This week's home is all about setting. How lovely to live in a home on a cliff, overlooking the Puget Sound. I'd love to have rhythmic ocean waves lulling me to sleep each night. I also admire the evergreens surrounding this home.

Larrabee State Park

2011-08-16T08:10:00.001-04:00

On Saturday, after family portraits, we had a picnic at Larrabee State Park. The drive to the park is worth the trip. It's along Chuckanut Drive, a gorgeously dramatic scenic route that hugs the Puget Sound shoreline.

The picnic area had a fun little playground, a pavilion and an amphitheater. The kids had a blast meeting new friends, playing soccer and being with all the aunts and uncles. A couple of hours into the picnic we decided to hike down the cliff to the little beach front. It's more of a pebbly beach made for exploring than a sandy, lounging one.

Chloe and Aunt Stefi hunted for sea glass. They found three pretty little pieces that I'd like to make into a necklace for Chloe.

Crossley was obsessed with the rocks that had been eaten away by years of waves.

Colton enjoyed watching the crabbing boats while contemplating his future in piracy.

East meets West

2011-08-15T20:31:00.000-04:00

For years Craig has wanted to take water from the Atlantic Ocean, near our home, and pour it into the Pacific Ocean when we visit the West. In all our preparations to get things ready to go to Spokane we failed to get the Atlantic water.

The night before we left our friend, Staci, gave me a bottle of Atlantic water when I picked Chloe up from Activity Days. She had been at the beach that day and her husband, Dan, called her and asked her to bring home a bottle of water for Craig. Craig had told Dan about wanting to do this, but not making it over to the seacoast before we were leaving.

This weekend we were in the Puget Sound area. On Saturday we had a picnic at a beachfront park, but accidentally left the water in our hotel room. So, Sunday morning, on our way out of town, we found the water and Craig got his chance.

He poured it over a cliff, into the Sound.

Thank you Dan and Staci for being so thoughtful and making Craig's desire come true.

Possibly the perfect home

2011-08-11T16:36:00.001-04:00

This gorgeous craftsmen cottage is so picturesque. I love the hedge with the gate, the window box full of overflowing flowers, the porch....I could go on, but let's talk about the setting. This home faces a beautiful, wooded park with an amazing playground.

My kids couldn't get enough of the playground. This picture only show's about 1/3 of it. It was so cool. And, if the park wasn't enough, the house is exactly half a block from a lake with a nice beach.

I mean really, wouldn't you love to be able to take a stroll down here when you need a break? Amazing.

BlogHer '11

2011-08-11T00:50:00.001-04:00

Me and Queen Scarlett

There is no way to fully relate the experience of BlogHer to someone who has never been. It was awesome and crazy and occasionally disappointing all at the same time.

My roommates (Fomerly Phread, Queen Scarlett and Mrs. O) were amazing. Sometimes I forget how much I like to hang out with other women, and these three are cream of the crop. They "made" the experience for me.

The Expo Hall was just plain fun. It was so interesting to see all the booths, hear their pitches and get swag-- Dr. Scholl's I love you. We went to two parties, one was a bust (Sparklecorn DJ= Boooooo!) one was fun (Yay Cheeseburgher!).

Highlights: Seeing Queen Scarlett for the first time in over nine years. Love that girl. Formerly Phread teaching the Single Ladies dance in a Blogher session. A-mazing! The incredible view from our room--corner room with two walls of windows.

Next year in NYC? I'm thinking yes.

Pre-Con activities

2011-08-04T16:47:00.000-04:00

San Diego is seriously amazing. Putting it on my list of cities I'm willing to move to. The roommates are super fun and ~j is even teaching us the Single Ladies dance. Oh, and delicious eats last night and this morning. Blogher hasn't even started yet and already I'm having a blast.

From the Oakland airport

2011-08-03T15:49:00.000-04:00

I'm on my way to BlogHer '11 and have seen three airports in three hours time--one more to go. Spokane was awesome--I forgot how pleasant non-New Englanders are. The TSA workers were so friendly, courteous and funny. For reals. I just glimpsed Portland from the airplane while we dropped off the majority of our passengers and picked up a few more before going to Oakland. Portland was "my" airport before I got married. I sat there looking at it, recalling fond memories and being reminded of how much I love Oregon (the trees! the water! the hippies!)

I'm sitting in Oakland right now, thinking about this fun weekend I'm headed into. I get to spend it with Queen Scarlett, whom I've known since I was 18 (longer than my husband), ~j, my friend from Provo to whom I never had to justify my dissatisfaction with our neighborhood, and Positively O whom I am super excited to meet (seriously, doesn't she seem amazing?).

What I ended up with

2011-08-02T21:36:00.002-04:00

Today I made it to an independent shoe store that I've been trying to get to for a month. They close two hours before my kids go to bed, so I haven't been there before (shoe shopping with children=crazy me). The saleslady at the store was fantastic and pointed me toward these shoes.

They're wide, with a little heel and super comfy.

The store only had them in black patent leather, but I saw them on Amazon in brown too (wish list!). I went ahead and bought them because I really wanted something comfortable to wear at Blogher '11, which is where I'm headed tomorrow. If they treat my feet well during the conference then Aravon will have a repeat customer in the future.

Wide shoe shopping

2011-08-01T13:35:00.002-04:00

I have wide feet. I usually wear flip flops, from the time the snow melts until the snow starts again. In the winter I have worn my Doc Martens until this last season when I found a great pair of snow boots at Land's End. When I find a cute pair of church shoes that fit I buy them and wear them until they fall apart. But I'm struggling to find a cute pair of sandals.

I have been to many stores, with no luck. I want something comfortable enough to walk in, but cute enough to be a little dressy. So far everything I've found that's wide enough is either uncomfortable or is a hiking type sandal. I'm hesitant to order something online because who knows how it will fit.

Do you have wide feet? Suggestions? Brands you love?

Hidden home

2011-07-28T15:00:00.000-04:00

I had a hard time putting my finger on what exactly it is that appeals to me with this house. In the end, I think it's the fact that it feels like a home hidden away in the forest. I could imagine this house being the surprise finding in a fairy tale. In fact, the first time I passed this house I didn't even notice it. It was on the second drive-by that I spotted it.

Time to spare

2011-07-27T06:55:00.003-04:00

Last weekend Aunt Stephanie and Uncle Scott were in town. Since bowling is Uncle Scott's favorite pastime we bowled a couple of games with them.

We had a good time, and the kids were especially excited when they beat me. Yes, that's right. In the first game they all outscored me (my score is on the left monitor, top line. A whopping 56.).

However, I am happy to report that I scored an even 100 in the second game--that's a personal best for me. Unfortunately I forgot to get a picture until the screen was cleared.

One session down

2011-07-26T14:03:00.001-04:00

We finished one session of swimming lessons last Thursday and we're on to our second. The weather has been a little cool, but the kids have been troopers.

No more relief

2011-07-25T15:26:00.000-04:00

Three and a half years ago the Bishop called our family into his office and asked me to serve as the Relief Society president in my ward. I thought he was joking. In fact, I asked him if he was serious and popped the Andes mint he had handed me into my mouth. He told me that he never jokes about callings and I promptly began choking on the mint. I was completely floored.

I had just turned 30 years old and had children who were barely 5, 3 and 1. We had been in the ward for a mere 14 months. There were still a few names I was struggling to match up with faces and I had no frame of reference for the 100+ sisters on the roll who didn't attend Relief Society at all. And, to top it off, I don't even like Relief Society (shhhhhh...). I figured things must be pretty desperate if I was to be the Relief Society president.

Despite all this I said yes. Because I have faith that "whom the Lord calls, the Lord qualifies." So I set about the work of Relief Society. It has not been easy. I have been continually humbled, inspired, frustrated, challenged and made to rely on the Lord. My greatest challenge has been fighting my own personality and tendencies, most specifically, I'm not compassionate by nature. But, with the help of the Lord, I feel that I was able to be compassionate when compassion was called for. And, more importantly, I was blessed with a counselor whose kindness and compassion helped to balance my shortcomings.

Over time I have come to appreciate the organization and purpose of Relief Society. I cherish the little glimpses I get of the quiet service that goes on amongst our ward sisters. I have become more grateful for the blessings in my life as I see others struggle with challenges that I have not had to face. I have grown, and I pray that I have helped others along their way and that the Lord will find my offering of service acceptable.

Yesterday I was released from that calling. I can't say that I'm sad, because that would be a lie. But, I do hope that I will continue to be challenged so that I can serve and grow and become more like my Savior because at the end of the day that's what it's all about.

Great Porch

2011-07-21T19:25:00.001-04:00

My brother-in-law and his wife bought this house a few weeks ago. I love the porch and the windows. The landscaping is gorgeous too. Inside it has some fun features like a lighted stairway. Bonus!

Downtown Spokane

2011-07-19T04:41:00.001-04:00

Downtown Spokane is always fun for the kiddos.

There's the incredibly huge Radio Flyer wagon with the slide handle.

Colton found it a little scary.....too high!

Feeding the garbage eating goat.

Ready to ride the carousel.

Chloe got to ride her favorite animal--the giraffe!

Uncle Shawn

2011-07-18T12:28:00.003-04:00

Uncle Shawn stopped over for a few days on each side of a camping trip. He set up his tent and let the kids play in it. They thought the see-through feature was pretty cool.

Then, when we were at the park he stopped by and played.

He also (very patiently) taught the kids a new board game and took them on a long hike to explore the hill and the clay pits. It's so fun when Uncle Shawn comes to town.

Mornings

2011-07-16T08:27:00.002-04:00

Mornings around here are usually spent exploring the hill behind Grandmommy and Papa Don's house.

Blazing new trails,

hunting insects,

and spotting bunnies and deer.

4th of July

2011-07-15T06:11:00.002-04:00

A little late.....but computer arrangements have been a little challenging on the trip.

Kevin hoping no one would burn down his new home.

Four foot sparklers make for awesome laser wars.

Maggie wanting no part of the crazy boys. (Hurray for cousins!)

Colton deciding he's done and trying to blow out his sparkler.

Poor Rachel. Hers wouldn't light.

Contemplating freedom.

Grandmommy and Papa enjoying a holiday with family.

Right down the street

2011-07-14T20:14:00.000-04:00

I've loved this home since the first time I saw it. It's a few houses down from my in-laws, in a great neighborhood. I love the craftsmen feel they gave to this newer home. I'd buy it, if they would ever put it up for sale.

With Sympathy

2011-07-08T04:36:00.000-04:00

Yesterday I realized that I hate buying sympathy cards. They use words like bereavement, grief and mourning. Those words feel cold and impersonal to me. What I really want is a card that tries to convey the hug I would give if I could be there in person. Because, to me, a hug is the best thing that one can give after a loss. It says that you care, that you love the person who has suffered the loss, and they can hold onto and lean on you if they need to. That's the kind of hug I give, and the kind I hope to get when trial of that kind come.

But, if I must send a card, I wish I could find one that said something like this: "I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I know it's hard right now. Please know that I am praying for you. I will be here when you need me."

1/2 Birthday Party

2011-06-30T20:06:00.000-04:00

What do you do when you live far, far away from grandparents and can't celebrate your birthday with them? Why, you celebrate your half birthday at their house!

Don't forget cupcakes (preferably with a half candle), a few presents, and dinner at your restaurant of choice.

Safely arrived

2011-06-27T15:07:00.001-04:00

Those Rockies. Wow. I haven't seen them in over five years. They are magnificent.

We arrived yesterday afternoon to happy smiles, lots of hugs and a home cooked meal. Does it get any better than that?

The weather was perfect yesterday and today is shaping up rather nicely too. The kids are loving their bedrooms at Grandmommy and Papa's house and are having great fun with all the "new" toys.

We are here.

Nearly Home

2011-06-25T18:41:00.002-04:00

This morning we started out on the prairie, flat with farms partitioned by rows of trees serving as windbreaks. It's been a long time since I could see that far around me in every direction. After a short cat nap I woke to find we were on the verge of leaving the prairie--we were driving through National Grasslands and they were amazing. I loved seeing the prairie in its natural, uncultivated state.

Not too long after passing through the Grasslands I felt a little thrill as I realized we were entering the
West. The rugged beauty of the land, dotted with occasional evergreens, made feel suddenly comfortable and at home. I just can't get enough of the cliff lined, swollen rivers, wild grasses and herds of cattle. Tomorrow we will traverse the Rockies and enter my beloved Pacific Northwest. Home is calling me.

Upper Midwest

2011-06-24T22:19:00.001-04:00

I am enamored with the Upper Midwest. Today was my first foray in to the region. I found Wisconsin particularly fetching. It was just lovely--trees, hills, green, rural. Sign me up!

As we were driving I mentioned to Craig that it was odd, but the foliage and the soil color reminded me of the Oregon coast. When we pulled off at a rest area we discovered that we were in the Sand Counties of Wisconsin. Who knew that a large area of Wisconsin has extremely sandy soil? Not me. Until today.

The highlight of the day was having dinner with our dear friends, Suzanne and Daniel. We were neighbors in Provo during our pre-children days and Suzanne quickly became one of my best friends. We haven't seen them in eight years. They've added three children since the last time we met, and we've added two. Put us all together and the result is the waitress asking us if we were there for a birthday party ("No, it's just our children. Thanks.").

As Suzanne observed at the end of the evening, "You know when you're good friends because you pick up right where you left off. It's not like that with everyone." She's right, it's not, but I'm so glad it is with her. And I sincerely hope we won't have to wait eight more years to put it to the test.